Men, Women, Relationships

Rape

All Sex Is Mild Rape

Some people call rape even more heinous than murder. They opine rape is manifestation of political dominance of the stronger males over weaker females. They consider rape as nothing more than violence. As per the commonly accepted definition of rape, penetration of foreign substance into any of the orifices of the female body by the dominating male sans consent is rape. Consent could be expressed or implied. So, the differentiator…

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No Marriages in a “Better Male” Society

Earlier, I had held a view that marriage is an option closely linked to the need for bearing child/children. This view has now undergone a change. Now, I believe that marriages are evil. There should be no marriages at all. Child bearing can be done without marriages as well. The reason for this change is as follows. The marriages are the biggest reason for differentiation between males and females. The only biological difference…


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Love Affair: Not with Pets!

A dolphin comes to his savior ever and ever again! You search for the lizard whom you push out of your room daily! A cat sneaks into your room pretty often, and you break open a small door in your big door for her comfortable entry! Your running mate, a street dog, has suddenly fallen ill, and you don’t like running anymore! You keenly watch the sparrow build her nest…


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Responsibility of Women in Rapes

Before writing anything else, let me clarify that though I am discussing the responsibility of women in rapes herein below, I am not saying men are not responsible. The one and only responsibility of women in rapes is their propensity to consider themselves as properties. Indeed there are numerous examples in the society which consider women as properties, but even when the society doesn’t interfere, women have a natural propensity…


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Rape and Violence Against Women

Before anything else, I need to strongly condemn those conservative politicians who don’t leave any chance of propagating harsher punishment for rape. There have been various instances when the sexual crimes against women have been accompanied by extremely harsh physical violence: the Aruna Shanbaug case, the Priayadarshini Mattoo case, the Soni Sori case, the Shanti Mukund Hospital, Delhi’s nurse rape case, the moving-bus Delhi’s medical student rape case, etc. In…


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Dress Code for Women

There are two ways to look at individual-society relationship: First, an individual is always under an attack from the community, and, secondly, an individual grows and prospers in the community. How one resolves the conflict depends entirely upon the context in which the conflict has to be resolved: The individual freedom has to be snatched in the first paradigm and understood in the second. The capitalist societies, generally, take the…


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Rape or Infringement of Privacy

Scenario 1: An unknown male rapes an unknown female, and then they never meet again, and nobody knows anything about it. Scenario 2: A well-known male, may be a boyfriend, has consensual sex with a well-known female friend; the duo consensually make a private video of their activity, but, one fine day, the male friend makes the video public in the local community. The first is a crime and carries…